by Rabbi Mordechai Rhine

It was truly a tragedy. A person was found killed not far from the city. Law enforcement officials were called to the scene, but for all their efforts they could not find the killer. Totally at a loss, they followed the Torah directive for such a case. They called the High Court of the Land to the scene.

The Sages arrived, and within minutes they solved the case. They summoned the elders of the city, and declared, “You are responsible for the death of this man.”

Those who were present gasped in surprise. “The elders of the city are the murderers?” they exclaim incredulously.

The Sages explained: The elders of the city are not accused of actually killing the man. But the findings at the scene of the murder bring a grave accusation against them. The man’s body was found in the open indicating that whoever killed him felt justified in the killing, and felt no reason to cover up the crime.

The accusation made against the elders of the city is that the death occurred because the man left their city without provisions. Desperate for food and angry with his lot, he tried to steal from a traveler. In his weakened state he didn’t explain his desperation; he was no match for the traveler who owned the food he was trying to steal. The traveler killed the man in righteous indignation, and somehow the sages are to blame.

If the problem is that a person was sent away from the city without provisions and proper hospitality, why are the sages being blamed? Certainly it should be the townspeople and shopkeepers who should be blamed for the death.

The Torah is teaching us a powerful lesson about Jewish leadership. Leaders are able to set the tone for a community. If they don’t set a good tone then they are to blame. If they don’t teach Jewish values of how to treat a downtrodden visitor, then they are responsible for the consequences. They are responsible for how people looked at the beggar when he was in their town, and they are responsible for the way he was treated when he finally left the town.

Awhile back I received a halachic query from a young couple. The couple was already blessed with children, but they now found that they were “unexpectedly expectant.” In brief, the question was, “Is abortion permitted?”

I began to question them about their situation. Were there mitigating circumstances that prompted the question? Was there any way I could help them? What I discovered was that essentially they were fine with another child. Financially, logistically, and medically they would be okay. What stressed them out what the negative peer pressure. In a general society that advocates two children or less, what would people say when they found out that they were expecting number four?

I spent time with them trying to reach out to them and encourage them. But upon reflection I realized: Looks Can Kill. The attitude of a community, the way people look at other people, does affect the way people will behave. In this week’s parsha we learn that ultimately the attitude of a community is set by the leadership.

As we enter the Hebrew month of Elul which precedes Rosh Hashana it is customary to do a reality check, to see if we are on target with what our goals ought to be. A Jewish community is a place of kindness and friendship, even to the passerby. A Jewish community is a place that values G-d’s blessings, and reaches out to people to help out especially when they are overwhelmed with blessing.

With best wishes for a wonderful Shabbos.

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